After a bad breakup I had last year with my ex girlfriend I went on a self exploration binge and discovered I was pansexual. Actually, I haven't been 'exploring' so much as diving right in. We'd met online a couple weeks ago on a gay dating site.įor a few months now I've been exploring my feminine side. This man was Anthony, or at least that's the name he'd given me when I asked.

Seconds prior, I was knocking on her door and ringing her doorbell expecting for a man to answer. The woman in front of me looked at me with disgust that burgeoned on fear. I had never been so embarrassed in my life.